Monthly Archives: February 2025

The Mountain

In life we all face metaphorical mountains, but this week I am literally climbing a mountain. When a friend said she wanted to challenge herself for her 40th year and climb Mount Kilimanjaro, the highest peak in Africa, my impulsive response was ‘That sounds great!’.

A year of training (not enough) and worrying about mountain-worthy equipment (too much) and mountain sickness (probably the right amount) later and here I am, about to leave for the airport.

If the Kili blogs are anything to go by, I will return aching, but enlightened, as the mountain teaches us many lessons. We’ll see! Whatever happens, this experience has already reminded me that it’s good to do things that challenge and scare us, and to test both body and mind.

We have paid for the trip, and are raising money for 2 charities: the Samaritans and Women’s Aid. If you can add to our fund, please do. Every penny will go direct to these charities which do life saving work.

Hopefully I’ll be back in 2 weeks with pictures and stories, and hopefully the world will not have descended into World War 3 whilst I’m out of signal range. I know I’ll be looked after by this incredible group of women so make sure you look after each other too.

Hostile spaces

I had a stressful Wednesday. I was called to give evidence in person at an inquest, which was a surprise as my involvement in the patient’s care was peripheral. The court was tiny. We started very late, and had to wait for an hour in an unheated corridor between the door and the toilet.

All I could think about was every more useful thing I could be doing with this time. In my mind, my to do list is a pile of crisp bits of paper, each one with a task typed on it on an old fashioned typewriter, like the in-tray from a movie from the 1950s. This gets higher and higher, and then becomes an unruly mess, threatening to topple over and crush me. I had moved things around to be available all day, but could not move a webinar I was co-presenting in a 1 hour window at lunchtime. I asked to be released for this. After some discussion I was allowed to give my evidence first.

The Coroner’s court is supposed to be a fact-finding mission, rather than an adversarial or litiginous process, but this depends on whether there are lawyers present, and if so, what approach they choose. The questions were fair but challenging. It was a good experience, to have given evidence when I only played a minor part in the case. All healthcare professionals can expect to be involved in legal processes these days. We all find them very stressful.

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